Reactive to other dogs: the distance method
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If your dog barks, lunges or loses its mind at other dogs on leash, you're not alone, and you haven't failed. Leash reactivity is one of the most common behavior problems in pet dogs, and it responds well to calm, consistent work at the right distance.
Why it happens
Most reactive dogs are worried, frustrated or over-excited, not "aggressive". On a leash they can't move away or approach naturally, and other dogs often appear suddenly and head-on. Every time it goes badly, the reaction gets more practised.
Find the distance
Somewhere between "doesn't care" and "loses it", your dog notices other dogs but can still eat and look away. That's the working distance. For many dogs it starts at 40 to 80 feet: across a street or a parking lot.
Then pay for calm looks
- Stand at the working distance where dogs pass by.
- Every time your dog looks at another dog, say "yes" and give a treat. Every look, every time.
- Keep sessions short: about ten looks, then a "find it" and walk away.
- When three sessions in a row are easy, move about five feet closer. After a bad one, add fifteen feet back.
In real life
- Learn a cheerful U-turn ("let's go!") and use it before your dog reacts, not after.
- Cross the street or curve away. Avoiding a reaction is a win, not a failure.
- Skip on-leash greetings for now.
- Give your dog quiet decompression walks to lower its overall stress.
When to get help
If your dog has bitten, or reactivity appeared suddenly, work with a certified behavior consultant or veterinary behaviorist, and get a vet check: pain is a common cause.
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